Friend Problems :/

send her an email, saying 'hey i'm sorry if i did anything wrong, but i'm kinda upsetr because you did (blank) and its really hurting my feelings"

ok

but think about it first, be sure thts what u want to do

so i apologized and everything and she was being a ***** about it......excuse my french (if it even is french)

if she chooses to be a butt, its her loss, you've done evereything you can do. continue to be diplomatic, treat her kindly still, but don't lie down and be railroaded

nah im mad now.

anger is one of the hardest emotions to deal with. I hate being angry beause i KNOW i shouln't be angry, but i can't and it makes me angrier, so i will start doing a mindless task like cleaning my room till i cool off

This happens in SO many situations where somebody seems really close to me and we'll be having the best time talking or something, we'll be the best of friends...untill somebody else shows up, then i feel completely ignored. Its not like they offically say "okay you have to go now that (other person) showed up" but its like i'm now a bug on the ground that is not to be given the least bit of reguard. I know and understand that my friends can be friends with other people. It just really really hurts because i know that my friend really does care, but what am i doing wrong to become invisible or untouchable once that other person arrives? Why do they do that? its so SO SO frustrating!

THAT has happened a lot to me, or i've seen someone else go through it.

like in 4th grade, when me and my current BFF met, i was the person who came along when she was bestfriends with someone else.

ITs amazing what happens when you get out. You don't care anymore becase you got to hang with friends you havent seen in a while....and they have some pretty cute friends.

does that mean you don;t care about us forum people anymore?

oh course i'll always care about u guys,
but i won't be as emotionally dependant, i guess.

ok, I was getting really scared for a second there. still don;t let us totaly take over your life. I own this forum so iI kindof have to be here a lot. I will undterstand if you jsut come on for an hour a day.

I didn't reallize that this was like, my life i haven't realize that i was so..depressed. and i'm totally hot and cold depnding on wht you guys do that day,

a suggeston would be to set your acount to kick you off after a certain amount of time. then don't come on for the rest of the day. But I will not be mysef if you totaly leave. I like haveing you here that much.


but anyway. back to topic.

thank you, thats reall good to hear.

Friend problems, i don't have any at the moment. people a iknow are going to be people. life is just about learning to deal with it,

you cannot avoid being angry or jealous some point in your life. it will happen. you have to choose how to handle it.

so my friend was absent today but she sends me texts....that r fwds though....

ur probably on her 'fwd' list.

there's a list for that? and i dont think so. she's been less mad

I know tht my friend Emmy has like a group that she sengs fwds to

ok my friend iS DEFINITELY still mad at me. we saw eachother outside in the morning, in the library and during lunch! we bumped into eachother at the librabry too.UGH! i hate that she's mad at me but i kno that for some reason when she finally talks to me, im the one thats gonna be mad

that would not be a good idea.. it could make things worse.

one of the things i hate about being a girl is the drama!

I know for a fact that anger is really hard to control when it is peresent and that it takes over. I also know that when you're angry at a person (i can remeber tht firshand actually) that i t takes a LOT to get you out of that.

My suggestion is to be completely independant of her Stay out of her way, don't make contact, don't react to anything she does if contact is made. she'll communicate when she's ready.

yeah there's ALOT of drama when it comes to my life

and i kno it wouldnt make things better zelf, but this is what happens every single time that she's mad at me. i dont say anything. i NEVER say anything and i always hate myself for it. i kno that i should say something, she even tells me to, but i just dont want to hurt her feelings and lose her. thats why i old back most of the time.

ONe of the hardest things to learn in life is independence. Having to be alone for awhile is always really hard, but in the long run its SO worth it.