Friend Problems :/

This is for us people who have a problem with their friends or are in a fight now.

Right now one of my best friends (since 2nd grade) and I are in this HUGE fight. She wanted to ask the guy that I like if he liked me but I didn't want her to because then he would get the hint and it would be awkward beween me and him (who are friends). So she asked his best friend to do it for me. I was almost crying in second period today because of it. I was really upset and I don't know what to do?????

Let it go. Que cera- what will happen will happen. Your friend was just trying to help. Don't get too mad at her.

and if he does say something about it to you or is acting weird call it on him and be like "what are you acting all weird for?" you can always deny that you like him. its highschool for crying out loud, everybody is spreading roumors,

Rasmussen wrote:This is for us people who have a problem with their friends or are in a fight now.

Right now one of my best friends (since 2nd grade) and I are in this HUGE fight. She wanted to ask the guy that I like if he liked me but I didn't want her to because then he would get the hint and it would be awkward beween me and him (who are friends). So she asked his best friend to do it for me. I was almost crying in second period today because of it. I was really upset and I don't know what to do?????

u can tell the guy who ur friend told to not tell his friend or do what melody suggested. yeah it MIGHT be awkward, but then u might get a relationship out of it. u need to take the chance even though something bad might happen. thats what i do

Two out of three times that a guy found out i liked him it turned out posativly. The other guy will still aknowlege that i'm there.

I know one of the times.... eheheheheh....

..maybe...

so i got into a fight with one of my friends....i was her bestfriend but my bestfriend was someone else and when she met her she insulted her and i got mad....

first of all don't hold in your anger. it could lead to things getting worse. wait a whole untill you both calm down and then try and talk about it calmly. if you cannot have a calm conversation end it before it goes too far and wait a bit more.

If you're her best friend, that means that she needs you more than you really need her. She is probably upset because she's maybe afraid that because she's not your #1 that you'll leave her. The natural human response to confusion and unsurity is anger. Both of you need to chill and talk it out. I know that being a teenage girl, you don't want to cool off right away, but its the best. Let her know that your still there for her, but that just because you're friends with sombody else dosen't mean that you hate her.
I've kinda been in her situation, minus that anger, and it is really hard. You just have to be gentle with her emotions,

well....today we were kinda standing near eachother in line...with our friend separating us in between....she kept putting her hand in my face as in "talk to the hand". it was annoying

okay, THAT is immature

if she wont talk, try sending a letter or an email.

and if she delets it or burns it or something, then its been all that you can do

yeah she is immature and we got over the fight...we didnt talk about it or anything...the anger just seeped away....

gee,

thats how it usualy goes.

ok now im having problems with my BFF. i think she's mad at me cuz i made a little joke about something she just randomly said about herself and today she avoided me in the morning and she didnt text me back....

Don't act on anything jus yet. she may just need space, but if she hasn't said anything by tomarrow, tell her that you're sorry about everything,even if it itsn't really your fault. Invite her to go get ice cream or something,

i hate being the bigger person.....

sometimes you have to be.

It also sucks to learn to be independent. Doing the good things are almost always hard, you just have to learn to find good reasons to do it anyway.

i am independent but when it comes to friends....

she didnt talk to me at all today! AND IT WAS HUG AN ASIAN DAY!!!!! SHE DIDNT HUG ME! >:O

kay, thats a violation,call her on it "wat did you do that for?"

but i'm afraid to hurt her feelings (not that she cares if she hurts mine) cuz whenever we get mad at eachother we avoid eachother until it passes.....